I am about 3 yards into the game, and will treestump boy (sorry, his name is somewhere underneath tonight's bourbon) play the game and sneak to his tree stump, thus allowing me my glorious victory in Seyda Neen, and the ability to move on without the lingering sense of things not done?
Will he f***.
I have read other peoples stuff on this, and so I have waited and watched from the top of the lighthouse, all night, for 6 nights in a row. I have also teleported treestump boy out of his house. Many times. He goes straight back.
I have got the quest in my journal.
At this point, I have to assume he's rumbled me. (I did fall off the top of the lighthouse and die while sneaking about up there though. I reckon that could have drawn attention), so:
What are the console codes to advance the quest? If at first you don't succeed: cheat.

Also, I am missing a few
Also, I am missing a few 'mesh' things. Chitin armour, and just the occasional random thing in the world. Are there any downloads I've missed, or is this expected?